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Children Can Be Risk Assessors Too.

9/14/2021

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By Laura Burki

‘Be Careful’ is a phrase that has become all too common in parent-child relationships. Of course we want our children to be safe, to not get hurt and ensure that the decision that they are making are thought through, considered and well executed. However we cripple children’s ability to self monitor and assess risk for themselves when we place that little seed of doubt in their mind that ‘careful’ is what they need to be.

There are many respected professionals in our world. People who are trying to help make a shift in the vocabulary we use when we guide and support children through situations that are fun, exciting, exhilarating and potentially a little dangerous and scary. After all, it is part of our role as adults to help children navigate their way through the challenges this world throws at them. We need to remember there are ways we can do this without wrapping them in bubble-wrap and removing all opportunities for them to ‘look out’ for themselves.

Most children are naturally great risk assessors. When given the opportunity, time and situation to be able to exercise this skill, they can use their senses to understand the situation they are in and make measured decisions to plan their response, next action or find a way out! We tend to stifle that innate ability when we stop them from taking risks in the first place. We remove all opportunity for risk, we instil exaggerated fear of a situation because we share our own ‘gut feelings’ with them before they have a chance to listen to their own internal warning signs.

"Risk permits children to push themselves to the limits of their capacities and encourages them to progress. Rising to challenges, embracing risks and taking an “I can do” attitude are important characteristics of effective learners."
- Risk and Play, Josie Gleave, 2008

Across the globe, there is a movement to replace the term ‘be careful’ with the question ‘Do you feel safe’ or even better still ‘how do you feel up there’. These two options remove our adult, on the ground judgement from the situation and allow the child to reflect and think about what their body is telling them about the situation they are in. When given a range of opportunities for them to answer this question for themselves, they start to find ways to discern between the feeling of good risk and bad risk. They find their own balance between acceptable and not acceptable levels of fear, they learn to judge between exhilaration and danger.

Remember to allow your child and our children to play, be free, learn, grow and take the risk!

They are smarter than you think.
2 Comments
Kerri
9/17/2021 10:09:24 pm

This sums up how I raised my girls in the playground. Rather then saying, ‘be careful’ which really is revealing my own anxieties.
I would try to coach them, by saying,’ check if you have a steady foot. Or, keep your eyes on where your going!’

Other parents would, tell me, “oh don’t you think they are too high?” My response to them is, “if they fall we have an excellent healthcare system if we need it! Thus far, we haven’t needed them yet!!

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